Bismillahh...
lama gila tak update blog.
okay takmau kona-kona, terus ke tajuk asal.
I have found this advice from several resources and try to make it as simple as possible.
this is not a relationship tips from me ( as I have so many flaws as being a partner :P)
1. Love each other
(don't push/force yourself if the love isn't there,its cruel u know!)
(don't push/force yourself if the love isn't there,its cruel u know!)
2. Don't Lie
(try to be as honest as u can,jgn kona-kona okay.ingat, trust is like an eraser, it gets smaller after every mistake)
(try to be as honest as u can,jgn kona-kona okay.ingat, trust is like an eraser, it gets smaller after every mistake)
3. Keep Communication Open
(good to solve a fight)
(good to solve a fight)
4. Stay Sweet
(for me, u don't have to actually show the sweetness of yours to other people if the reality between u & your partner isn't that sweet.so the most important thing is how u maintain that with your beloved one :)
(for me, u don't have to actually show the sweetness of yours to other people if the reality between u & your partner isn't that sweet.so the most important thing is how u maintain that with your beloved one :)
5. When you get hurt, just forgive and forget
(this isn't easy to do, but it is really needed.everyone deserves a second chance, but then again u have to make sure the chance given is worth it)
(this isn't easy to do, but it is really needed.everyone deserves a second chance, but then again u have to make sure the chance given is worth it)
6. Never talk about break-ups
(many people including me always see break-up as the last resort when we get too upset and give up. but think carefully. and this is important to those who are married.never think of divorce! it's a big NO!)
(many people including me always see break-up as the last resort when we get too upset and give up. but think carefully. and this is important to those who are married.never think of divorce! it's a big NO!)
7. Forget about pride
(there's no space for your pride in defending a fight between you & your partner. Giving in is sometimes needed)
(there's no space for your pride in defending a fight between you & your partner. Giving in is sometimes needed)
8. If you say sorry, mean it.
9. Don't compare your past/ex with your present
(remember, nobody's perfect & nobody's the same)
(remember, nobody's perfect & nobody's the same)
10. Beware of his/ her feeling
(don't ever think that you can easily hurt your partner and simply say sorry after that)
(don't ever think that you can easily hurt your partner and simply say sorry after that)
11. When u had a fight, do not let the day pass by
(I think it depends on people.some people need some space to think wisely)
(I think it depends on people.some people need some space to think wisely)
12. Never say it's okay even it's not
(that's why communication is needed here)
(that's why communication is needed here)
13. Don't be the perfect one. be the right one (⌒ｏ⌒)
p/s : a reminder for me too :)
p/s/s : elaboration dalam bracket tu macam exam note aku jek.hoho. elaborate hanya bila ada idea.sorry yeh (¬‿¬)
